Announcement #541

Welcome to my new song and dance. What the..., you're wondering? The new Emily. My old song and dance was mentioned several blogs ago. The hopeless, lost soul wanting answers to all my "why" questions. Let me just tell you - not only has my support system grown, but, again, so has my faith. I have let go of the fact that I suffer from PCOS. There's no changing the diagnosis. There's no more getting upset with God. There's no more wondering WHEN is this life going to get better. I've come to the realization that life is only going to get better if I want to change it. Change is huge! A lot of people stay in the same spot all their life hoping and wishing things are going to change. Let me break the news to you. Change doesn't happen, unless you make it happen. Get off your hooha and do something for yourself. Are you sick of your job? Are you stuck in an abusive relationship? Are you friends with the wrong crowd? Are you battling an addiction? Are you suffering from anxiety or depression? If you answered yes, which I'm sure the majority of you did, let me help you!

Let me break out my social worker skills! (I can hear my husband saying, "Oh great. Here we go...")

Personal Development. The main principal in change is HOPE. People change because they have hope. If you don't have hope, you will not change. Right? It's up to you to make the change in your life. No one's going to do it for you. You have one life to live. Here's your opportunity to change what you have, right now! 

Here's what worked for me!

#1 - Change begins in your mind. Start by thinking about your beliefs. When you make a change, you also make a change in your beliefs. Your beliefs are a collection of thoughts perceived over time. 

#2 - Believing in yourself is key! Once you're able to believe in yourself, you make yourself a priority. No more "second best." Put your feelings first! Write down what your expectations are in life situations. Remember, you are not the "average Joe" anymore. BELIEVE that you can take on anything, and you will learn you can with no more worries and no more questioning whether you can or cannot. No more "can'ts." 

#3 - Have a positive attitude. Once you start believing in yourself, you will realize your outlook in life is more positive. You will also learn to accept others for who they are, and most importantly, you will accept yourself for who you are!

You're probably wondering how I did it. It wasn't easy, by all means. It took a lot of tries, especially dealing with infertility. I put a lot of trust into personal development. Although, failure was knocking on the door, I pushed through the negativity and succeeded. That's why I have faith that anyone can take on these 3 simple steps. Negativity is filling this society. Social media is to blame because there are so many people that can sit behind their computer or cellphone and type nasty insults all over the internet. Give this opportunity a shot. It will be worth it in the end. You will be stronger mentally and emotionally. 

I have hope that anyone reading this can and will succeed through their journey in life by believing!! My goal by writing this blog is to coach you through this change. I have grown tremendously in the past year, all because of personal development and self-care. 

"Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt 

Just remember, you are beautiful. You are one of a kind. 

Love always,

Emily